Stefani Uhley passed this along (from the web). It's written by Colleen F. Tomko, copyright 1998.

KIDS TOGETHER, Inc.

Tips for Getting What Your Child Needs

Prepare for meetings - AVOID "SURPRISES"

At the meetings

Written by Colleen F. Tomko, copyright 1998. Edited a little by Jim Devine.

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This is still a rough draft, and will be updated with more ideas.